“ቤቲ አዋረደችን!” ከያሬድ አይቼህ

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ኢትዮጵያዊቷ ቤቲና ፥ ቢግ ብራዘር አፍሪካ 2013 (Big Brother Africa 2013) በሚባለው የቴሌቪዥን ትርዒት ላይ ፥ ሴራሊዮናዊው ቦልት ያደረጉትን ‘ወሲብ’ ያዩ ሰዎች “ቤቲ አዋረደችን” ሲሉ ሰማሁ። ለመሆኑ ምናችን ነው የተዋረደው? ከየት ወዴት ነው የወረድነው? ክብር እና ውርደት አንጻራዊ ቢሆኑም ፡ መጠን ግን አላቸው። ቤቲ ኢትዮጵያውያንን ከዬት ወዴት እንዳዋረደችን አልገባኝም። ለመሆኑ ኢትዮጵያውያን ክብር አለንን?

betty

ክብር

በምግብ ራሳችንን ያልቻልን ህብረተሰብ ከመሆናችን የተነሳ በእርዳታ ድጎማ የምንኖር ህዝብ መሆናችንን አንርሳ። ከዛ አልፎ መንግስታቸን በአመት 2 ቢሊዮን ዶላር እርዳታ ያገኛል። ያለዚያ ድጎማ የኢትዮጵያ መንግስት በአጭር ጊዜ ተንኮታኩቶ ሚወድቅ ነው።

ከስደተኛም ስደተኞች ፡ ከድሃም ድሆነች ፡ ከኋላቀርም ኋላቀሮች መሆናችንን ረስተን ‘ቤቲ አዋረደችን’ ማለቱ የአስተሳሰብን አለመደባር የሚያመላክት ሆኖ አግኝቼዋለሁ። ኢትዮጵያውያን ኋላቀርነታችን በአስተሳሰባችን ከሚንጸባረቅባቸው መንገዶች አንዱ ስለራሳችን ባለን የተሳሳተ ፡ በሃሰት ላይ በተመረኮዘ ራስን ማግዘፍ ነው። ይህ ራስን ማግዘፍ ለህብረተሰባችን መሰረታዊ ችግር ነው ብዬ አምናለሁ።

ክህደት

አንድ ህብረተሰብ ክቡር ሳይሆን ክቡር ነኝ ብሎ ካመነ ለብዙ ችግሮቹ መፍትሄ የማግኘት አቅሙ የጠበበ ይሆናል። ለምሳሌ፦ አንድ በጠና የታመመ ሰው ፡ ሃኪም ጋር ሄዶ ሃኪሙ “በጠና ታመሃል ፡ ይሄን መድሃኒት ውሰድ” ብሎ የመከረውን ምክር “እኔ ጤነኛ ነኝ” በማለት ችላ ቢል ፡ በሽተኛ መደየሙ አይቀሬ ነው።

ኢትዮጵያውያን ያልሆነውን ነን ከምንልባችው ምክንያቶች አንዱ ካለንበት የተዋረደ አገራዊ ፡ ማህበራዊ ፡ ኢኮኖሚያዊ እና አጠቃላይ መንፈሳዊ አዘቅጥ የተነሳ ከሚሰማን ጥልቅ ስለልቦናዊ ውርደት የተነሳ ይመለስለኛል። ሰዎች በክህደት አስተሳሰብ የሚዘፈቁት ያሉበትን ሁኔታ መቀበሉ እጅግ በጣም ቅስማቸውን ስለሚሰብር ነው።

የግለሰብ ነጻነት

የቤቲና ቦልትና ጉዳይ የህብረተሰባችንን የመንጋ አስተሳሰብም በግልጽ ያሳያል። ኢትዮጵያውያን ለግለሰብ ነጻነት የምንሰጠው ቦታ በጣም ትንሽ ነው። ሰዎች ግላዊ እንዲሆኑ ሳይሆን መንጋዊ እንዲሆኑ ከፍተኛ ጫና ይደረግባቸዋል። በአገራችን “ብቻውን የበላ ፡ ብቻውን ይሞታል” የሚሉት የድህነት ፍልስፍናዎች አሁንም በሰፊ አሉ።

ቤቲ የኢትዮጵያ ህዝብ ንብረት አይደለችም። ቤቲ አንድ ግለሰብ ናት። የፈለገችውን የማድረግ አቅምና መብት ያላት ጎልማሳ ሰው ናት። ቤቲ ኢትዮጵያዊ ናት ማለት የኢትዮጵያ ንብረት ናት ማለት አይደለም። ግን ይሄ ጉዳይ የፆተኝነትም ጉዳይ ጭምር ይመስለኛል። ቤቲ ሴት በመሆኗ ነው ይሄ ሁሉ ትቺት የደረሰባት። በአገራችን ሴቶችን እንደ ንብረት የማየቱ ዝንባሌ አሁንም የተንሰራፋ እምነት ነውና።

ጉዳዩ ግን በአንድ ኢትዮጵያዊ ወንድና በአንዲት አፍሪካዊት ሴት መካከል ቢሆን ኖሮ ፡ የ“ቤቲ አዋረደችን” አይነት ትችት በብዛት አንሰማም።

ታዲያ ቤቲ ምን አደረገችን? እሷ ያደረገችው ቦልትን እንጂ።

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አስተያየት ፡ ትችት ምናምን በዚህ ይላኩልኝ፦ yared_to_the_point@yahoo.com

62 Comments

  1. We have been poor ecoomically for many years. But unlike u said, we are not poor spritually or psycholoically. But u seem more frustrate and hopeless.Bethy has destroyed our respect among Africans by making the most open sex even the barladies do not tempt to do.

  2. ያሬድ፣ ራስዋንስ አላዋረደችም? የትዳርና የቤተሰብን ትርጉም አላፋለሰችም? ለመብትዋ ስትከራከር አንተም ነውርን ስታዳንቅ እንዳትገኝ እሠጋለሁ። አገራችን ኤድስ ስንቱን ወጣት ሲያራግፍ፣ ወላጅ ተሸካሚና ጧሪ ሲሆን፣ ኑሮ እንዲህ ሲያማርር፣ በሺህዎች የሚቆጠሩ ወጣት ሴቶች በግርድናና በቅምጥነት ለዐረብ ራሳቸው ሲሸጡ፣ የአዲስ አበባ አውራ መንገዶች ሥራና የትምህርት ዕድል ባጡ ሲጣበብ ያንተ ቤቲ አርኣያነት ምን ያህል ጉዳት እንደሚያስከትል ያጤንኸው አይመስልም። ወንድ ቢሆን እንዲህ አንቆጭም ያልከውን እስማማለሁ። ወንድ ቢሆን ነውር ያምራል ማለት ግን አይደለም። ሌላ የዘነጋኸው ነገር ይህን ጉድ የሚያካሄዱ በሰው ሕይወት ንግድ እየነገዱ እንደ ሆነ ነው።

  3. tiraz netek kil eras are u saying because individual right betty can sleep wit ahya and feres that is her right there is norm which is not accepteble by specific society .and the other argument because ethiopians are poor they have to lose every thing they have even their etics.u know what even in western counrys sex work is iligal because it sends a massage womens are just a sex tool .and u say if its ethiopian men do that it will not making that contraversy we are not talking about junder right here we are talking about the way she do it send a bad massage for the future jeneration .dont act like she didnt nothing bad if she is your sister u will cry in your bed room hope fully this girl need to have government protection when she come to ethiopia

  4. Yared, do you know the value? Bete is from Ethiopia. Bete is bounded Ethiopian culture and norms. Bete is going to represent our country. If some one asked her ,she will respond from Ethiopia. Do not tell us about poor people Ethiopia. we know it,but Ethiopia is the symbole of Africa. Ethiopia is the independent country in Africa during colonization. we had a great leader except Hitlor Melese. you have right to support Bete. her sex style is not Ethiopian culture. Ethiopian people will not accept and even world. I never forget Bete the bad side reflection of Ethiopian culture. god bless Ethiopia. thank you.

  5. yarid do you think you are open mind or what, before you say some thing think about two three time the way you explain you can tell you do not have respect the country i wish if you have wife and she has sex with some one you will feel it the guy he is family person he has wife and children what manner she has betty ? dose that our culture ? we are not saying why she did sex that is her right but why she did live national TV she saying , she present ethiopian and she is a teacher in ethiopia what kind of example she gonna be her student ? answer it for your self may be you are from woyane family or you are one of them who saying open mind by following hoollywood people shame on you

  6. Deport Betty to USA or Canada, she can find a job here but donot even mention she is from Ethiopia. You can do any dog style things in USA in public but not in Ethiopia.
    Tell me what Kenesisa, Tirunesh, Meseret ….are doing? and then Betty.

  7. COOL down Yared!

    Are you telling us what you personally feel about your self esteem? It is up to you, Dude. Who cares Betty for things she is volunteering. The good thing is, I am not related to her in any way.
    Question for you: What do you feel if she were your sister or beloved daughter? Would your answer still be the above ones? Or Yewerada Lij Werrada Neew?

    Expect every thing, It is Big Brother show

  8. betame taszenaleh lante kiber hod memulat new betame tasazenaleh degmomo teru felasfa neh abet chelotahe lante yehiewt tergum ende ensesa hod molto mader new negegereh ye Ethiopian hezeb menak new keber yelegem malte mebteh new ye Ethiopia hezeb gene keber yalew hezeb new ,we have the fear of God.

  9. በለው! ያሬድ አይቼህ ፎቶ አይተው ቀንዝሮባቸዋል ሲሻፍዱም “ለመሆኑ ኢትዮጵውያን ክብር አለንን?” ” ብቻውን የበላ ብቻውን ይሞታል የድህነት ፍልስፍና”አራማጅ ረሃብተኞች !ድሆች! ለማኞች!በዓመት ፪ቢሊዮን ዕርዳታ ነዋሪ፣ስደተኞች !ኋላቀሮች! ባስተሳሰብ ያልዳበርን…ክብረ ቢሶች….በሃሰት ላይ ተመርኩዞ እራስን የማግዘፍ በሽታ ያለበት፣ ከሀዲ ፣ሕዝብ ነው ያላሉ። እግዚዎ መሀረነ ስንት ሥድ አደግ፣አሳዳጊ የበዳው፣ወራዳ ፣…አለ?

    ለመሆኑ ግለሰቡ በአንድ ሴት ልጅ እግር መስቀል ይህንን ያህል ሕዝብ የተሳደበ ብዙዎች ቂጣቸውን ሲከፍቱ ምን ሊል ነው? ስንት ለትውልድ የሚያስተምር ነገር ማስተላለፍ ሲቻል..ይህ የቀረበው ድሃ ህዝብ ሊሰደብበት ነውን? ለመሆኑ ግለሰቡ ሽርሙጥናን ዝሙትን ሴሰኝነትን ያልደገፈ ህዝብ ይህን ያህል የሚሳደቡት ምንአልባት እሳቸውም ግሪክ…..?

    በአንድ ወቅት አቶ ያሬድ አይቼህ ግሪክ ምግብ ቤት ተቀምጠው “በሰው ሀገር የግለሰብ ነፃነታቸውን ማግኝታቸውን አውግተውን ማሳቅ ብቻ ሳይሆን ኢትዮጵያ እንዲህ ያለውን ተሸክማ በመኖሯ ነው ድሃ የሆነችው ከሀገር ማስወጣቷም መልካም ነው ብለን ነበር። ሕዝብን በመሳደብና በመናቅ ብዙ አገም ጠቀም የሆነ ወያኔን የማባበልና ትውልድን አራክሶ በመሳደብና በመናቅ ከአቶ ግርማ ካሳ ጋር ይመጣጠናሉ። አወቅሽ አወቅሽ ሲሏት…መሽኛዬን እዩልኝ አለች!
    ሁለቱም ሌላ ድረገፅ ተሰድበው ተባረው ጠፍተው ነበር።ነገሩ እንዲረሳሳ አንዳንድ ፅሁፎችን ማቅረብ ጀምረው አልተሳካላቸውም አሁን አጋጣሚውን ተጠቅመው ከሌላ ድረገፅ የተባረሩበትን እዚህ መጥቶ ይህንን መትፋት በጣም ያሳዝናል ብልግና ነው በለው!። በዚሁ ርዕስ “ስለ ቤቲና ወሲብ ጉዳይ አብርሃ ከመቀሌ” በፃፉት ላይ የሰተሁትን አስቴአየት ይመልከቱ….ይቀጥላል በለው! ከሀገረ ካናዳ

  10. Ato Yared yemiluh: The idea you raised is even copied from another person, almost word for word. Why persons like you bark just for the sake of being different? shame on you. Betty did wrong; she has to admit that! Her act is worth condemning but she is still Ethiopian…

  11. The author if this article do you know about moral?

    Kibir is not a matter of being reach or poor,it is a matter of moral standard,ok.
    what people r saying about Betty is not what she acted (sex) but the way she acted bro,no open sex in front of camera,she a really wicked person without moral standard .

  12. Dear Yared,

    I do not agree on what you say in general. Yes, it is absolutely true that ” Bichawin yebala : bichawin yimotal.” This is a very true proverb. The proverb teaches you the importance of cooperating and socialization instead of greed. Before you tried to preach about the individual right, you need to understand the relativity of freedom. Freedom does not mean you have the right to do what ever you want. Do things which has a moral and ethical value. One thing I would like to inform for every body is any thing by the FERENGE people is not right and a symbol of civilization. We need to understand any practice in terms of its ethical, moral, social, spiritual and others value which smells good like a human being.

  13. ሰው ለምንድነው ያልበላውን የሚያከው እስዋ ላደርገችው የሌላው እምቡርታ እምቡር እምቡር ማለት ምን ይባላል እንዲህ ያገር ጉዳይ ወይም ወይም የ እህቶቻችን ጉዳይ የሚቆረቁረን ከሆነ በብዙ ሺ የሚቆተሩ እህቶች በአረብ ሃገራት በችግር ላይ በስቃይ ላይ ናቸው ዝም ብለን ወናፋችንን ከምንነፋ ለነሱ እንድረስላቸው አቤት አቤት አቤት በዚህ ባሳለፍነው ሳምንት ሰዉ ከሰማያዊ ፓርቲ ና ከአባይ ግድብ ላይ ተነስቶ እንደግሪሳ ቤቲ አናት ላይ ጉብ ጎበዝ ለካ ለይቶልናል ወንፊት ሆነናል ለካ

  14. We don’t expect beter from a person how have sold his moral value for weyane ffrifari. DOn’t blame him he has already lost his ethnical and moral values and replaced national pride with personal greed

  15. sewyew hagerachenen atwekelem yalkew satasebew new weyeslekeld? yeteshekemechew bandira tadya men malet new?ruachochachen rotew seyashenefu yemilebsut bandira men lemasayet new?hagerne mewekel adelem ende?eraswan chela yale bandira yefelegechewen madreg mebtwa lihon yechelal yehager meleya sendekalama tekenanbo wesib be wededer gen..tekeledaleh ende new weyez asebeh adelem yemetnagerew

  16. TAZABI ግዚ ካለህ ደግማህ አንብበውና ያሪድ ምን ለማስተማር እንድፈለገ ተረዳው ዝም ብለህ ያንተ እህት ብትሆን ምናምን እያልክ እምቡር አትበል ወይስ የፈረንጅ አፍ ብቻ ነው ይሚገባህ?

  17. There must be something you are seeking from this generous girl. Otherwise, we know that it is very shameful to commit sex in public. It is only animals like ox, and donkey who commit sex in public. I am not clear about your piece are you talking about poverty or the girl’s hero in promoting our culture to the world.Shame on you and Betti too.

  18. What an ignorance and naivity; have you ever heared about something called collectivism? The word might be too strange for you because of your idiocy. There many cultures in this world which governs themselves in a collective manner with the exception of the so called psudeo western individualism where people don’t care even for their own family members. Infact, majority of over two hundred sovereign nations do practice collective values. If you go to Asia where over one third of the world population lives, you wouldn’t say and act upon your impulses. Societies has their own culture, values, religion, and aspirations; there is nothing as such right and wrong. The Aborgines in Australia has a culture of leaving their dying elderly in a remote inhabitable forest or dessert so that they will not receive any help from any one; now, who do you think you will be to judge this part of their culture? Some cultures do practice circumsicion (genital mutulation) on their young ones due to religious values, tell me would you say that is wrong? The whole point is we Ethiopians have our own values and we are very proud of that! We are not wild animals to show off our sexual encounter in public. You need to do a lot of reading obviously before jumping into your outrageous conclusions. We might be poor, but we have too much to offer to this world. Get over with it and you and that whore needs to apologize for the gross negligence you have committed.

  19. ehith endi sitisheramot bitay elilil bileh tikebelaleh? bene emnet yetarik atela nech esua beserachiw tarik metawek alebin ende?

  20. yared simhin keyr lante ayhonim werada anite neh ene ena ethiopia gin werada adelenim yawek mesiloh new yetafkew dedeb anitem kesuwa atishalim werada min albat aniten ena esuwan asdestoachihu yhonal betesebwa gin min yahil enidemiyafru bawek temar kifil atikuter

  21. mejemerya yemitsifewon yematawk sew wey ensessa libelh. endante aynet kebt doma denkoro ayche alawkim..r u gay ? nege degmo sile gay litmonechachir yhonal..any way ..ante ke bety yebask werada neh

  22. Dear Yared
    I don’t know how to start. Anyway, let me start by telling you my respect on your previous contributions. I really appreciated you and I have to admit I feel indebted.
    But when we come to this article. Although, I realize what you are intending to say, your way of defending your argument is so so poor. What do you mean by “Do we Ethiopians have any pride?” Yes we Ethiopians a million times pride!!!!!!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! Let me remind you some examples of where our pride comes from. Our ancient history, our own alphabets, our culture, our tolerance of religions, our sharing, our fight for our country, our country itself could be a reason for pride. I can go on! Of course, we are poor because of various reasons and we failed to overcome that, and with its consequence Ethiopians spread all over the world as migrants, our citizens may have been doing some dirty jobs to survive. BUT that doesn’t mean we don’t have pride. It doesn’t mean poor people do not have a pride. To the contrary and surprisingly majority Ethiopians prefer to die starving with their pride than …. I am more ashamed of you than betty! because of your article!!!!
    Betty hadn’t explained herself yet! I personally don’t want to judge her because 1.
    I am not sure if at all it has happened. 2. If it had happened, what made it to happen. 3. She has to be given a chance to explain herself.
    If she has no good reason, I believe what she did is quite wrong. Let alone for a girl which is raised in a conservative society like Ethiopia, it is not natural even for the westerners to have sex in public/live unless for those licensed to do that.
    Finally, I want to apologize if I offended you but I will definitely tell you that you have offended me!!! Unless I hear something different from you, I have decided not to read any of your articles NO MORE. Sorry if I am too sensitive and judged you by a single article!!
    GOD bless Ethiopia and Ethiopians!

  23. yared you bastard narrow mind woyanne. no one say this except woyanne because
    they don’t have religion or proud of culture. on top of that the way you act do you think you are civilized. first of all we are not talking about porno sex video we are talking for what she did on live TV watched all over the world.

  24. yared ebed yimeslegnal, balefew weyanen degifo simodamod neber, ahun degimo
    yeshermuta tewokay honowal, yihe yeferenj berger basefaw afeh Ethiopianen mesadeb betakom yishalal, huletegna endezih betelekelek yemetelekelekew yitagedal,eziaw teterasewaleh gebah !!!

  25. Yared,

    you seem to be sick to me. It is a universal shame for a woman who claim to represent one country adorning herself with the flag and commit live sex on the media with a complete stranger whom she knows only for 3 days.

    This has nothing to do with individual freedom and human right. it is a shameful act and other ethiopian women can be easily portrayed as cheap sluts by those who have seen this immoral act.

    unless you are seeking some sexaul favour from her or related to her somehow, this is not a rocket science to figure out. public sentment would be the same if this type of embarassment is caused by a native of any civilized society.

    the problem with people like you is that you have a high level induced self-hate. and don’t forget, others hate you and despise you when you hate yourself and indulge yourself in such immoral acts.

    • Thank you zufan,

      You nailed it. Let me add some thing from different perspective, I am not sure whether those of many Ethiopian girls with the name of “Betty” would like to called the same way again or would parents proudly call their loved ones with this name again? I doubt. Because this is not some thing to be labeled as minor event that goes away with time, you think. But it won’t. In this information age, internet and youtube cross the line of privacy. On top of that, this woman is doing it her very most privacy publicly in front of the world. Sooner or later, we are going to watch Ethiopian music video side by side with her “proud performance” on Youtube. So, her unpermissable act practically destroyed this information and entertainment venue too. It is humilating for her and her immediate family members and autrageous for all of us. (I don’t want to call her by that name. Out of respect, this name will be reserved for those humble and innocent Ethiopian “Bettys” I know.). In my opinion a criminal investigation should be filled against the promoter of the show for breaching the core ethical values. Yes, there is still ethical value in its diminished form. Also investigation should be made whether or not she acted under the influence of heavy drug or chemical mixture. The above writer named as “YARED” diminished himself down up to beyond the recognition as human being. His way of thinking not only is unheard of, but also is as cheap and decadent as he himself is.

  26. @tibebu ምን አይነት ጥሩ አስተሳሰብ እንዳለህ ብሩህ ዐእምሮ እንዳለህ በአገላለጽህ መረዳት ይቻላል አንተ እንዳልከው በቤቲ በኩል ያለውን ሁናቲ ምንም እምናውቀው ነገር ስለሌለ ለፍርድ አንቸኩል ነው? እግዚር ይባርክህ አቦ በኒ አስተሳሰብ ደሞ ቤቲ ለተፈተረው ጉዳይ መልስ ባይኖራት እንኩዋን ዝምታን የምትመርጥ ቢሆን እንኩዋን መታሰብ ያለበት ጉዳዩ የራስዋ እንጂ ከሃገር ጋ ሊያገናኝው የሚችል ምንም ነገር እንደሌለ ነው በዚህ መልኩ ያረድ ስለግለሰብ ነጽነት ያለን ግንዛቤ ምን ያህል ውስን እንደሆነ የተነተነውን እውነታ ደግሞ ማንበብ ጥሩ ነው እላለሁ በተለይ በተለይ zufan, yagersew, እና kebe እዝህ መጥታችሁ ተራ ነገር ከትዘባርቁ የራሳችሁን ቤት ፈትሹ በተለይ ዙፋን

  27. ene kante gare alesmamam menem behone benerabem Ethiopian keberachenen asalefen endeh ayenet werada sera beadebabay serten anawkem this is very bad on public ok you have to now just money is nothing benerabem kebrachenen yezen benerab yeshalal

  28. ይህንን ፅሑፍ በተመለከተ የዚህ ድረገፅ ሃላፊ በስህተትም ይሁን በቸልተኝነት “ዘ-ሀበሻ “የሚለውን ስያሜ ባለመጠበቁ አዝናለሁ! አንዳንዴ ኮንደሚኒየም ላይ እንደወጣው ጅብ አጋጠሚውን ተብቀው የሚቦረትፉ ውሾችንም ተጠንቀቁ!! >>ያሬድ አይቼህ አባትህ ከመሞታቸው በፊት “ሰው አትሆንም ግን አይቼህ እንዳሉ ጓውተው….ሰሞኑን ለመላው ኢትዮጵአዊና ኢትዮጵያዊት የጠየከውን እኔንም ይመለከተኛል አብራራለሁ፡….ከንቀት መልዕክትህ አስተያት፡ትችትና ምናምን ላኩልኝ ብለሃል።ያው ምናምንቴ ነህ በለው!
    ፩) ምናችን ነው የተዋረደው? ከየት ወዴት ነው የወረድነው? ለመሆኑ ኢትዮጵያውያን ክብር አለንን?
    ***በመጀመሪያ ክብር የሌለው ማንነቱን የማያውቅ ትንሽ ሠው መዋረዱን አያውቀውም ድሮም የወረደ ስለሆነ ነው።ሕዝቦች ሃይማኖት፣ባህል፤ቋንቋን ጨምሮ ልዩ መገለጫቸውና መከበሪያቸው ነው። ወፍ ዘራሽ ካልሆኑ በቀር…ግለሰቧ ወይም አንተ ግለሰቡ ይህ ከሌላችሁ ኢትዮጵያ ውስጥ አልነበራችሁም ለነገሩ “እበት ትል ይወልዳል ብለው የለ!? ስለዚህ ከእበት የተወለደ ትል እዚያው አፈር ላይ በስብሶ ይቀራል፣ በመስተዋት ውስጥ ብታስቀምጠው አይመቸውም ለምን ድሮም ክብር ስላልነበረው።ኢትዮጵያውያን የተከበሩ የሚያከብሩን የማይደፈሩ ግን እንግዳ ተቀባዮች ስለመሆናችን መጠየቅ፣ ማንበብ ፣መመራመር፣ፊደል የቆጠረ ማገናዘብና ማንበብ ችሏል ማለት አይቻልም!
    ፪) የኢትዮጵያ ህዝብ በምግብ እራሱን የማይችል ድሃ ?መንግስታችን በዓመት ፪ቢሊዮን ዶላር ዕርዳታ የሚኖር?
    **ታዲያ ግለሰቧ ከእግሯ መካከል “ወርቅ ስታስቆፍር ነበር? ከሴራሊዮን ቦልት ነዳጅ ስትቀዳልን ነበር? ለመሆኑ መንግስትህ ልጅ በመሸጥ፣ህዝብ መማፈናቀል፣ንብረት በመሸጥ፣በሙስና ህዘብ በማስለቀስ፣ዳር ድንበር በማስቆረስ፣ ህዝብ በመተራመስ፣መሬት በማከራየት፣በውርስ ተገኝ ንብረትን በመቀማት፣ከሀገር ዕድገት የግለሰቦችን ብል(ግ)ፅግና የሚያራምደው የጎጠኛና የዘረኝነት አድሎዓዊ ምዝበራ የፈጠረው ድህነት እንጂ የኢትየጵያ ህዝብ ድሃ ልሁን ብሎ አልመረጠም! “በምግብ እራሳቸውን ያልቻሉ ድሃ የአፍሪካ ሀገሮች ዴሞክራሲና ነፃነት አያስፈልጋቸውም የሚለውን የወያኔ የተጠቀለሉትን ሰውዬ የተፉትን ራዕይና የለጋሲ ምራቅ ውጠህ ባጋጣሚው ለመትፋት የተሞከረ ነው።
    ፫) የኢትዮጵያ ህዝብ ማለት፡ ስደተኛ~ድሃ~ ኋላቀር~አስተሳሰቡ ያልዳበረ(ደንቆሮ፣መሃይም) ነው።? የኢትዮጰያ ህዝብ ‘በሀሰት ላይ የተመረኮዘ እራስን ማግዘፍ “ችግር…ሀገራዊ፣ማኅበራዊ፣ ኢኮኖሚያዊና መንፈሳዊ ዝቅጠት፣ ከጥልቅ ሥነልቦናዊ ውርደት የተናሳ ከሀዲ ናቸው።
    **ግለሰቡ ማን ሆኖ ነው? ያሬድና መለስ ብቻ ምሁር፣ሊቅ፤ፈላስፋ፤ናቸው። በመሠረቱ ይህ የዘረዘርከው ሁሉ እራስህን ይመጥናል።አዎን ለገሠ/መለሰ በጨረር ከመመታታቸው በፊት እንዲሁ እንዳተ ይቀሳፍቱ ነበር።የኢትዮጵያ ህዝብ የደረሰበት ሀዘን እንግልት መልካም አስተዳደር ዕጦት ችግሩ የመነጨው የሆዳሞች፣ የከሀዲዎች፣የአድርባዮች ብዛት ነው ። እንዲሁ መሀል ሰፋሪ ሆነው ሲያምታቱ ሌባ በመሸፈኑ ነው።አዎን፤ እንደእናንተ ያለን ጋጠወጦች የተሰከመች ሀገር ምን ትሁን? ሕዝብ አፍሮባችኋል፣በኮምተር ላይ እራሳችሁን የምታገዝፉ ቅል እራሶች፣በአፋችሁ አትፀዳዱ! በሀገርና ህዝብ ላይ ሸፍጥ ከመሥራት እራስን ለገንዘብ ለውጦ ማፍጠጥን የሚያክል ሀገር ክህደት የለም!። ድሮስ “የሌባ ዓይነደርቅ መልሶ ልብ ያደርቅ”ይሉ ለም እነኛው ድሃ ግን ብልህ የቀደምት ኢትዮጵያውያን? ?!
    ፬) የኢትዮጵያ ህዝብ መንጋ አስተሳሰብ አለው? ህዝቡ ከብት ነው ማለት ነው ?
    **ብዙ ከብቶች አንድ ላይ ሲሰማሩ መንጋ ይሆናሉ፡ የከብት መንጋ ለምግብ ፍለጋ፤ ከአጥቂ አውሬ ላለመበላት ለመከላከል በአንድነት ይሠማራሉ ።ህዝቦች አነድ ላይ የሚጠቀሙበትን ሀገር፣ባህል፣ ሃይማኖት፣ጨዋነት፤ ግብረገብነት አላስደፍርም በማለታቸው ለምን ይሰደባሉ? ይዋረዳሉ? ይናቃሉ?
    ፭) ግለሰብ ነፃነት?
    **ማን ሰው አለሽና መንገድ ላይ ታሪያለሽ አሉ? አለህበት ሀገር ሽንት መንገድ ላይ መሽናት ይቻል እንደሆነ አስረዳን አለበለዚያ ያለህበትን ንገረኝ የማታውቀውን ሕጉን ላስተምርህ መቼም ትንሽ ሰው ትንሽ ነው የሚያስበው አፉን በመክፈቱ ያወቀና ነፃ የሆነ ይመስለዋል ልርዳህ ብዬ ነው።” ሲሉ ሰምታ ዶሮ ቢላዋ ልታሠራ ሄደች አሉ”በእርግጥ “ብቻውን የበላ ብቻውን እንደሚሞት ብቻውን የበላ ብቻውን ያራል” አንተ ብቻህን በልተህ ከማን ቂጥ ጋ ገጥመህ እንደምታራ አላውቅም።( እስካቶ ፓሪያ) የሚባለውን ግሪክ ምግብ ቤት ደግመህ ስትሄድ የምግብ ማውጫው ላይ አንበው።
    ፮) በሀገራችን “ሴቶችን እንደንብረት የማየቱ ዝንባሌ ያልከው” አንዳንድ ፖለቲካና ውጭ ቋንቋ ቃርመሃል ተባዳብህ አቶ መልስ ሲንን፣ቢቢሲ፣አይተው ያድሩና በጠዋት ዘ-ኢኮኖሚስትን ሲያነቡ ቀኑን ሙሉ ዓለም በእጃቸው የዋለች ይመስላቸው ነበር። ፓርላማ ሲገቡ ግን እዚያው ድሃ ሠፈር ካዛንችስ ናቸው ስለዚህ ሁልጊዜ ያለቅሳሉ፣ ይበሳጫሉ፣ ይደናፋሉ፣ ሁሉንም እንደጠቀለሉት ተጠቀለሉ አይ ያ የፈረደበት ስንደቅ ለሁለተኛ ጊዜ አፈር ገባ እሳቸው ግን የሉም!! ኢትዮጵያውያን ለሴትማ ክብር ባይኖራቸው እንደ ግሩም ተክለሃይማኖት፣ ጭቁኑ ዘ-ቄራ፣ደላላው፣ አቤ ቶክቻው፣ የዞን ፱ ጦማሮች፣ነፃነት ዘገየ፣ለይኩን ከደቡብ አፍሪካ እና ሌሎችም ስለእህቶቻችን አልቅሰዋል፣ ጮኸዋል፣ እንደ ያሬድ አይቼህ በግላጭ ቤቲ ትበዳ! ብለው ሴት እህታችንን አላበረታቱም!ድገፍ አልሰጡም፣ አላሻሻጡም ሕዝባችንን አልተሳደቡም፣ አላዋረዱም፣ በለው!! (ግለሰቡ ዕርማትና ይቅርታን ሕዝባችንን ሊጠይቁ ይገባል። !) ግለሰቧን ፍትወቷን በማርካቷ የተቃወመ የለም አስማሪነት የለውም ተባብራችሁ ማንነታችንን እስከምታጠፉት ድረስ ክብርና ባህል ያለን ዓለም የሚያደንቀን የትቁር ህዝቦች ቀንዲል ነን ያሬድ ቋመጠ ንዴቱን እና ላይ እረጨው በለው! ከሀገረ ካናዳ በቸር ይግጠመን…ሀገራችንን የሚደፍርና የሚያስደፍር ከውስጥም ከውጭም ለዘለዓለም ይውደም!!!

  29. Hats off to Yared for speaking out the truth.But Betty does not mean she did something applauded. But what she did has nothing to do with Ethiopia or Ethiopianess. it is purely her personal affair. so leave her alone and let us focus on the cause of the problem – Woyane – than wasting our time and energy on individual whose action has no significant impact on our destiny as Ethiopians. Betty like you and me is the product and victim of the woyane regime .A regime of gangs and mafiosos who threw Ethiopians into abysmal poverty and pestilence . What is wrong with betty if she sell her body to keep her flesh and soul together ? To me she is 100% better than those Hodams and woyane boot lickers who sold out their conscience for nickle and a dime .?

  30. GOD bless you Ato yared, .I love you for you r telling us the truth. mejemeriya ye rasachinin nestanet enweq keza sele bete enawealen. eskeza dires yehen slave mentality yezen, zim yeshalenal.

  31. yared you seems to be a confused fellow ofcourse as ethiopians we have so many social problems that should be solved, but that has nothing to do with what betty did at big brother africa what betty did is unacceptable to any human being let alone ethiopians who are god belivers neka bel yemaygenagn neger atagenagn

  32. actually i am agree in some of the following point
    1, in middle east specially u.a.e bahrain,k.s.a Ethiopian means cheap perstuitute, tiff,dis honest
    2, as a country most people do not know the exact figure or information regarding our economy,government budjet …even we can say that * the branch of c.i.a government in land of ethiopia ..becouse any government since the past 50-60 years serving for foreign government either russia, u.s.a and eropian union,etc…
    and i am not agree on the next points
    1,ethiopian have a unique culture based of social life and that made them unique and unite
    2 we as ethiopian may poor people money wise but rich and welthy culture that we have if you see to day in west they bring our their shame in to open for us this is not about privicy is or human write it is about loosing identity ,and animalism..back to the stone age .
    3,since she is ethiopian that is her identity mean ethiopian …she shuld act as an ethiopian culture by the book…
    4 brother if we are ethiopian ..there must be an identity that catagorized us as ethiopian and that is the unique way of express in the way that accepted in the ethiopian society……
    5 why we always accept west philosophy as a means of standard.. if we are ethiopian let is keep the tradition that mean positive impact in our socity..

  33. thank you you nailed it the point is she is a girl and not representing no one it is just a mivie she has a sloley right if someone think it is nor appropriate don not watch it that is it

  34. Yared Ayicheh,
    Do not be so moron as to draw public attention by playing with something dirty.
    Do not be dirty by this cheap aim of yours, and worse by siding a dirty guy like Betty.
    Shame and curses in you.

  35. this is very personal and her full right ,if you do not like it do not watch or see the movie .respecting someone privacy and right start from this .she can sleep have sex and do whatever she want it is none of nobody’s bussiness .leave the girl alone

    • mola ,

      you said: “respecting someone privacy”
      I say : Her privacy is severely violated. The promoter is showing every thing what is happening in her bed, her utmost privacy. No single woman in the world would be willing to show the world their privacy in bed room, unless the woman is working as PORNO ACTOR volunterly, I will tell you what will happen when she comes back. If she comes to realize that all happened with out her knowledge, she will be furious, depressed, humilated for long time. She wouldn’t say, so what, “This is my right” as you said.

      If every thing goes OK for her she would stand in front of her students as a teacher again who they were watching her infamous video. As a teacher “A GOOD ROLE MODEL FOR HER PUPILES!!!!!”

      What I would do is, I would send my kid to other school.

  36. mola አሁንም ይሙላልህ አቦ ኣዳሜ የራስዋን ጉድ በጉያዋ ደብቃ ሰው ቤት ገብታ ያዙኝ ልቀቁኝ ትላለች ቤቲን ልቀቁና እራሳችሁን ፈትሹ ያልበላችሁን አትከኩ

  37. Mola

    I fell sorry for ur children what kind of father u are or will be no moral at all in u plus I can imagen what kind of family back ground u came in from fara seselaten mekera eko newe

  38. ከልጅቱ ጋር የስጋ ዝምድና ቢኖረኝ ከምድረግጽ አጠፋት ነበር የች ወራዳ ይሄኔ አንድ 200 ዶላር ወርውረውላት ይሆናል
    ባላጊ ስድ ስድ ያሳደጋት ባለጊ ልጅ ቤተሰቡን ያሰድባል እርግጠኛ ነኝ ፈርሃነ እግዚያብሔር ያለውና በዲሲፕሊን የታነጽ ቤተስብ አሳድጓት ቢሆን ይህን ለማድረግ ድፈረት አይኖራትም ።
    ሰውየ አንተ ደግሞ አዋቂ ለምምሰል አትቀርሻብን ዲሞክራሲና ስልጣኔ ምኑ ነው ከሽርሙጥና ጋር የሚያገናኘው?
    ሃገሪቱ መንግስተ ቢኖራት ኖሮ ጭራሽ ወደ እዝች የተቀደስች ምድር ያን የረከስ እና የሞተ በድኗን ይዛ እንዳትገባ መከልከል ነበረባት።

  39. As I watched her video my pubic area swelled up and therefore I decided that I am not worth criticizing her. I felt that I am no better than her. If this happened to you please stop blaming her. Those of you who have not sinned stone her.

  40. yared yetsafew mulu be mulu fallacy new………..rehab,sidet,metarez mewared aydelem…..le hode sibal gelana kibirin meshet new wirdet.

  41. Yared
    According to your stupid argument Ethiopians are poor so that they should not care about moral values, what a lame argument from someone who see himself as MUhuR lol having moral value had nothing to do with once economic status ezih doma, you may be morally and spiritually buncrupted person however EThiopians are not morally starved people like you , It is sad to see Ethiopian Diaporas trying to spread and promote prostitution and indecency instead of knowledge and development

  42. Trash. The most ignorant , some what arrogant and childish perspective I have ever read. I am sorry that Z-Habesha admin allowed such kind of irrational, un-intellectual opinion by a retarded man called- Yared. My fellow Ethiopians, do not waste your time to convince such kind of moron and retarded persons. My blame is up on Z-Habesha. Yared, you better replace betty and have sex with Bolt: that is your right. I guess you have never read about the limitation of freedom, there is no as such absolute freedom or individual right, my human right illiterate. Shame on you.

  43. A very controversial subject. I think she should have informed herself in advance, what it means to be on BB. I also think it is a very big burden to represent a country. BB Africa has a different composition, to the original BB composition. In the original one everybody was/is there introducing/promoting oneself only and not a certain country which is the case in BB Africa. I think the author of this article failed to see this difference. Summarizing: if the lady is there to represent herself alone, it wouldnt have been a country matter but soley her own issue and if individuals like or not what she is doing. Unfortunately for her in this set up of BB Africa she is representing Ethiopia and she has the obligation to behave according to our perceived culture, tradition and custome.

  44. Yared Aycheh yemitgerm sewu neh.Ethiopiawianin lemesdeb Bettyn endemikniat tetekemk. Lenegeru siftrih denez neh. Deha hizib kibr yelewum bleh masebh DIKURNAHN yasayal.

  45. Yared is a usless donkey. A very stupid Negro ape.
    Who is this bastard to insult my Ethiopian people.? Better keep your mouth shut. Piggy!
    The self called Betty shall be hunged in Meskel square.
    She is a grand wohre. Therefore, She deserves haning in public.
    As She has insulted all Ethiopian Women and Men.
    She and her familiy must perish.

    We Ethiopians do not need any alms. It is Woyane TPLF regime who is living on begingen from western governments. TPLF is their stooge.
    Viva Ethiopia!!
    Death to To TPLF!
    Death to Betty the harlot from Addis Ababa
    Zurga
    the great

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